Individual Work.
How you come across and what you radiate, looked at closely.
One to one guidance. Somewhere between nature and nurture, most people lose track of what is character and what is learned, limiting behaviour. This track offers individual, tailored work to tell the two apart again. Family constellations are available for deeply rooted patterns.
The Unfinished Image
Individual reflection and development
Sometimes it is valuable to look at yourself through someone else's eyes for a moment. How do you come across? What do you radiate? And does that match how you want to be seen? That is why, from time to time, people benefit from reflection with someone present who does not know them. As an external and natural link I look and listen along: at what is said, and at the unconscious weights moving underneath it. I observe, name what I see, and leave the meaning to you. Where it fits, I use constellations to make the patterns behind repeated beliefs visible.
- — How you come across, what you radiate naturally and how that lands with others.
- — Communication style, how you speak, listen, respond and position yourself.
- — Patterns, what keeps returning in your work, relationships or interactions.
- — Beliefs, ideas about yourself and others that shape how you act.
- — Blind spots, what you may not see yourself, but is visible to others.
- — Tension between intention and impact, what you mean versus what the other person actually experiences.
- — Constellations can be applied.
- — Available in Dutch and English.
One programme. Multiple layers.
Intake
Individual track
A tailored track around communication, authority, patterns and beliefs.
Systemic work
The constellation layer
For when a pattern keeps repeating. I look at what sits beneath your ambition and at dynamics that are older than you are.
Combination
Conversation track + constellations
Conversations and constellations combined, for recognition, acknowledgement, uncovering and change at once. Working on how you come across holds up when there is inner steadiness underneath it and an understanding of how the initial behaviour was formed.
WHEN YOU ARE STUCK WITH SOMEONE ELSE
Mediation for conflict in private life.
Some things cannot be resolved on your own, because the other party is part of the problem. A separation, a conflict with your employer, a family matter that keeps coming back. As an MfN registered mediator I sit between both parties: warm towards the people, unbending about the problem, and always working towards agreements you can both live with.
- — Separation
- — Parenting/contact arrangements
- — Inheritance
- — Family business
- — Neighbour disputes
- — Homeowners' association disputes
- — Former partners
- — Friends/business partners
INVESTMENT
Indicative rates, so you know where you stand before you start.
All rates excluding VAT. A quote follows the free 30 minute intake call. Available in Dutch and English.
- Transformative guidancePrivate, per hour
- from €95
- Family constellationIndividual, per session
- from €155
- Organisational constellationIndividual, per session
- from €175
- Private mediationPer hour, MfN registered mediator
- from €150